people are insensitive. that's how we are. but what appalls me is the extent of which a person can be insensitive. you DO NOT try and introduce a 'nice' friend of yours to a person who has been recently widowed! the deceased hasn't even been dead for half a year and there you are trying to match-make your 'nice' friend with someone who still misses her husband dearly and is still trying to come to terms with his death! WHAT THE FUCK ARE U GODDAMM THINKING?! but i should not be pissed with you. you are in your mid-forties and unwed. and you're getting desperate cos your boyfriend doesn't seem to want to settle down. well it's prob cos he's still attached to his dead wife. (okie so that was mean but i don't really care) so since you are getting desperate, you naturally assume that others are getting desperate as well. and being the kinda soul that you are, you try to match-make them! WAKE UP YOUR FUCKING IDEA!!! i may not know what she wants in her life but at this point in time, i do know that she doesn't need another man in her life. not just yet. i also know she just wants to provide well for her kids. so before you go around trying to match-make people.. use your bloody brains to think! oh wait.. you prob don't have one. you BLOODY BIMBO!! so what if your 'nice' friend is about the same age? so what if he's rich? do you think she cares?! you DO NOT TRY to match-make someone who recently lost her husband. DO NOT TAINT HIS MEMORY! i suppose this is a very unfair piece of post to the person in question but i don't really give a damm because that person is being totally insensitive towards her and her family. and since i'm part of that family.. of course i feel angry. how can you do such a thing? don't you know how it hurts? i'm sure you're not trying to make her forget him and you want something good for her. but that is SO NOT THE WAY! the next time i see you, i won't even bother to be nice. bloody insensitive desperate bimbo!